{"id":490,"date":"2017-11-27T23:52:39","date_gmt":"2017-11-27T23:52:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/defiaye.com\/?p=490"},"modified":"2017-11-27T23:59:27","modified_gmt":"2017-11-27T23:59:27","slug":"just-some-muddled-personal-thoughts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/defiaye.com\/index.php\/2017\/11\/27\/just-some-muddled-personal-thoughts\/","title":{"rendered":"Just some muddled personal thoughts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">For days I&#8217;ve been listening to the various sides of the gender argument calling for greater female representation on panels after a Yes group held an all-male panel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I think this is where I should mention that I\u2019m both female and probably a bloody terrible feminist.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I grew up with brothers.\u00a0 A soldier, a lawyer and an oil rig worker. Admittedly I\u2019m the failure in the family (as most folk know \u2013 my health is poor).\u00a0 I was treated like dirt for being female by my own mother.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Anyways I don\u2019t know what the solution to the debate is.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Women were asked and people think that more should have been done to recruit women to the panel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">It\u2019s difficult. I, personally, don\u2019t even present myself as female.\u00a0 I did once. I used to identify as female on my bio but the abuse was terrible so I deleted the word \u2018female\u2019 from my bio and the trolls died away immediately.\u00a0 That was my first real experience of the gender imbalance and how it affects someone on an individual level. Due to my health (although maybe wrongly using it as an excuse not to take up the fight) I gave up my gender online.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Interestingly the same pattern of behaviour happened when I identified as \u2018disabled\u2019. I was called all sorts of names for daring to be online at all.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Disabled people shouldn\u2019t be online. Women shouldn\u2019t be online. \u00a0These are the messages I received in 2017.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">What we can do is support female bloggers.\u00a0 Maybe there should be a Female Blogger Support Group established. Even a Twitter Account that curates female bloggers work, RT\u2019s and supports women to write more. \u00a0If people thought that was a good idea I\u2019m sure I could get people behind it to help me \u2013 is that something women (and men) would appreciate?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">There is no sure-fire solution. Women; whether you agree or don\u2019t &#8211; usually have extra things to consider \u2013 eg. children.\u00a0 And also money. Whether folk want to hear it or not \u2013 Women are disproportionately affected by austerity<a href=\"#_edn1\" name=\"_ednref1\">[i]<\/a>. They may not have the same resources to take part. \u00a0Women will have shouldered 85% of the burden of the government\u2019s changes to the tax and benefits system by 2020. Less affluent women will be the worst affected.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Now there\u2019s the idea floating about that women could be paid to be on these panels. I don\u2019t agree with that either. I, another personal thought, think that everyone should be paid OR no one.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">In anycase &#8211; Comment CONSTRUCTIVE thoughts below and let me know what you think could be done to improve womens access to panels. (And to all the Trolls and snide arseholes dying to comment &#8211; duck off).\u00a0 If there are enough useful comments below &#8211; I&#8217;ll do a follow-up article with your ideas and solutions.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><a href=\"#_ednref1\" name=\"_edn1\">[i]<\/a> https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/society\/2016\/nov\/19\/austerity-women-men-low-income<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For days I&#8217;ve been listening to the various sides of the gender argument calling for greater female representation on panels after a Yes group held an all-male panel. 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